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The role of parents in a
child's life is second to none. It is the parents who lay the foundation
for the growth and development of a child. Thought every parent tries
their best to bring up their child in the best possible manner, mistakes
happen. While there is nothing like a "perfect parent", every
parent can work towards becoming a better parent.
And
this is where the importance of Good Parenting comes in.
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Respect your child.
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Don't substitute your
love and attention with material gifts and leniency.
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Always be there for your child.
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Define your rules
and explain the consequences of breaking them.
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Be involved in your children's lives - keep a track of where they
are, who they are with, and what they're doing.
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Talk to your children
with respect in the same way that you might talk to your associates
and acquaintances.
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Spend quality time with
your kids and be there for them whenever they need you.
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Don't over pressurize
your child to do well in school, sports etc. Help them to define their
goals in life.
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Try to have at least
one meal a day with your children and the entire family no matter how
busy you may be.
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Be a friend to your
child - let them know that they can talk to you at all times.
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Never raise your hand /
hit your child no matter how angry you may be.
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Always remind your
children that you love them and that you are there for them.
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Children tend to follow
their parents. Hence, be a good role model for your children.
Keep all the channels of
communication with your children open at all times. Learn from your
mistakes and work towards making your kids independent, responsible and
intelligent citizens.
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