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Role of
Society in the Novels of Nayantara
Sahgal
The importance of men and
their superiority has been a part of Indian social mores for generations.
Women had always been the less important individuals. When a woman lives
in a male dominated society obviously she undergoes many hardships. It is
a wretched condition of women in our society when she has no husband in
her life she is not worthy of respect. Society finds faults with anyone
who does not adhere to its laws, in other words, they are the
transgressors of society. In a male dominated society and under male
chauvinism a woman's role is hence viewed through a magnifying glass, and
she is always watched by others, especially if she does not follow the
rules established by the males.
As male chauvinism refuses
to recognize woman as competitor in domains of society. In this
situation, a woman is not born but made by the society— "One is not
born, but rather becomes a woman. No biological, psychological or economic
fate determine the figure that the human female presents in society; it is
civilization as a whole that produces this creature, intermediate between
male and eunuch, which is described as feminine."3
Thus patriarchal practices which reduce women's status to inferior social
beings are further perpetuated by myths and traditions which unfortunately
have been embedded in the fabric of society. Patriarchal society promoted
tow images : woman as the sexual property of man, and woman as chaste
mothers of their children.
Even though man is a civilized being now, there is still the savageness of
primitive man in him. With savage selfishness he treats woman as "an
object that provides physical enjoyment, social companionship and domestic
comfort." This inequality between man and woman in our society is rightly
observed by Sarah Grimke— "Man has subjugated woman to his will, used her
as means to promote his selfish gratification, to minister to his sensual
pleasure, to be instrumental in promoting his comfort; but never has he
desired to elevate her to that rank she was created to fill. He has done
all he could do to debase and enslave her mind...."8
Thus denied the freedom to act and choose on their own, women remained
solely inside the field of vision, mere illusion to be dreamt and
cherished. A woman is a woman, and a woman she must remain but not a
'man's shadow-self', 'an appendage', 'an auxiliary' and the 'unwanted and
neglected other'. A woman is held to represent the 'otherness' of man, his
negative.
Simone de Beauvoir finds man-woman nexus quite unsymmetrical and
uncomplementary for— "man represents both the positive and the
neutral, as is indicated by the common use of man to designate human
beings in general; whereas woman represents only the negative, defined
criteria, without reciprocity."9
A woman is never regarded as an autonomous being since she has always been
assigned a subordinate and relative position in our society. It is an
appalling condition of women that they cannot live without men in our
social set-up. As they are considered physically weak and to venture in
the society they need protection from males. This is the root cause of
females' apathy in our society.
"Man can think of himself without woman. She can not think of herself
without man. And she is simply what man decrees.... she appears
essentially to the male as a sexual being. For him she is sex......
absolute sex, no less. She is defined and differentiated with reference to
man and not he with reference to her; she is the incidental the
inessential as opposed to the essential."10
We find references to his aspect of social life, where husbands dominate
their wives, and make them the worst sufferer in the novels. The Day in
Shadow, Storn in Chandigarh, Rich Likes Us by Nayantara Sahgal.
The fundamental humanistic values which bind a man and woman into the bond
of togetherness the fidelity and companionship are away from social world
today. Men take pride in having relationship before and after marriage but
this thing they do not expect from their women. We find this thing in the
relation between Saroj and Inder in the novel Storm in Chandigarh.
Saroj is also like Rashmi, unhappy and unable to find a reciprocal
involvement in her marriage. Inder, her husband is not only from a
different cultural background but is a different kind of person
altogether. He is obsessed by this narrow possessive attitude towards
Saroj. He treats very brutally like a sex object not as a companion in
marriage.
While others use power or money or religion, Inder uses chastity as a
weapon against Saroj. It is part of his capacity to torment others and
also torment himself. When Saroj tells about her affairs before her
marriage, Inder considers it to be a serious moral lapse which has sullied
their whole relationship. He feels that her act has no place.
Saroj, however is not guilty and dishonest. When she marries Inder it is
already behind her – a relationship which has not involved her deeply
enough. It is different that society which lives by a double standard
brands her as guilty. For herself she is fully involved but Inder does not
under stand her and tries to destroy her sense of innocence. He persists
in taking up the past and withdraws into his own self, leaving her
outside, isolated and unhappy.
Inder often ill-treats Saroj chiefly for her having lost her virginity
before marriage. Inder, a sadist, neither forgets this incident nor lets
Saroj forget it.
Saroj who has been brought up in the liberal atmosphere of freedom expects
equality within marriage. She is greatly surprised by her husband's
violent reactions to a pre-marital affair she had in her college days.
Inder is obsessed and could not forgive this act of Saroj and constantly
exploits her sense of innocence. Again in this passage we see male's
cruelty over female for defying the code of chastity before marriage that
is man made for his convenience.
It shows the cruel face of patriarchal social set-up where dual standards
work out prominently. Inder often tortures his wife Saroj for having
premarital affair, but ironical thing in this matter is that Inder himself
has lost his virginity long before his marriage, the narrator reports :
"There had been no such nightmare to contend with until his marriage. He (Inder)
had been precocious and successful in sex, robustly collecting experience
where he found it. Saroj had plundered that robustness, made a tortured
image of the body's surrender, and nailed him to the inquisitor's
chair."26
Since he had a lot of erotic experience before his marriage, there is no
ethical justification behind his expecting his wife to have one. Saroj
undergoes even a beating for this fault of hers, but Inder never punishes
himself for this faults of identical nature.
Inder's deep rooted notions about women render him incapable of genuine
partnership with Saroj, such as she ardently desires. Gauri expresses in
her talk with Vishal. "Inder belongs to the he-man school,"27 and born and
brought up in an atmosphere where male dominance is the most formidable
for cults, there is no question of any freedom or self-expression for
Saroj.
Inder is man who, not really traditional but he derives his idea of male
superiority from religious sources.
Inder treats Saroj merely as a wife – a possession, not a person. There is
no question of friendship between them. Inder loves Saroj, no doubt, but
the loves her as if she were his slave, his possession or commodity. They
have lived, loved, even produced and raised children, but there has been
no real happiness between them. To such a callous, irescible and inhuman
husband, she wants the emotion to overflow into everyday life but Inder is
not able to correspond.
Saroj is by nature pitiable and docile. She seeks to please him and to
save her marriage. She clings to the moments of response and
communication. She is willing to accept her role as a traditional wife and
does not seek anything outside marriage. Actually Saroj leaves him only
towards the end of the novel where as Inder had left her each time he
quarrelled with her. It is with a sense of dismay that she had viewed
their future together.
Thus Inder-Saroj relationship exposes the cruel face of patriarchy where a
woman lives in an appalling condition and faces sufferings because of
strong social conventions, she cannot escape herself from society
therefore, she accepts these things as the part of her destiny.
The male superiority over female in marriage that works in Inder we find
in Ram also, in the novel Rich Like Us. With tradition behind him the
namesake epic hero Ram marries Mona, then falls in love with Rose and
finally falls for Marcella. His marriage with and love for women are for
him a part of the heritage he has inherited and considers polygamy a
prerogative. There are no qualms of conscience in him and with Lord
Krishna and Rama for authority he lives with two wives. He tells Rose that
Lord Krishna had three hundred wives and King Dasaratha, Rama's father,
had three wives. He claims rather audaciously that Hindus are more
adventurous than Mohammedans who can only have four wives at a time.
Claiming that Hindu marriage is a sacrament, not a contract, he rules out
giving up his first wife, Mona.
He has no guilt in his heart having his first wife on the one hand and
marries second time with Rose. And after his second marriage he carries an
affair with Marcella. When Rose asks an explanation on this matter he
explains to Rose that he feels intellectual love for Marcella and feels
pride by stating that before her. But his attitude turns violent towards
Rose when she goes out with Freddie (with whom she wan engaged before she
met Ram) to get some relief from the suffocating experience which she got
after marrying Ram. He doesn't approve her meetings with Freddie and
becomes annoyed at her. He scolds her very brutally.
Rose, the English woman marrying Ram, is the Sita figure in the novel.
There is an inexplicable fatalism about her – her yielding to Ram's
persuasions and her decision to sail to India against warnings by her
parents. Ironically in spite of all her experience of the male species,
and even with the knowledge that Ram had been married, she fatalistically
walks into his life. There was something romantic about her attitude to
Ram.
Surviving the shocks of the first weeks of adjustment, she learns to live
in humiliation and neglect. She realizes that – "Without a child of
her own she would never be the mistress of the house not even her half of
it."35
The cold war between Rose and Mona abetted by women visitors disgusts Rose
until they are reconciled after Mona's attempt to commit suicide. But this
was not the end of her troubles. These is the Marcella affair which leads
to her separation from Ram for five years. In all her vicissitudes it is
Sonali who remains a friend and who fights for her right to property. And
Finally she is murdered. But people are made to believe that she invited
the death on herself.
The story of Rose is the story of several Indian widows. In the name of
Sati many women are murdered. How voluntary are voluntary deaths? One can
see the parallel between the accounts of Sati found in Sonali's father's
trunk and the Sati of Rose. In both cases the deaths are not voluntary but
forced. But like a phoenix rose dies so that her son, rather fosterson,
may live. He had forged her signature to withdraw, money from the bank and
has now become a Cabinet Minister. Betrayed by her lover – husband Ram, by
her fosterson Devikins, betrayed by law, she lives and dies pathetically
much like the beggar whom she has always cared for. She fails to fight for
her legitimate rights and how could she give hands for the beggar.
The novel The Day in Shadow also exposes the cruel face of society. It
also exposes the chauvinism intrinsic in the modern male who believes
himself to be liberal – minded, educated but considers wife as a commodity
as a possession not a person.
The novel deals with the struggle of a young, beautiful and daring Indian
woman trapped under the burden of a brutal divorce settlement and the
agony and unhappiness she experiences in the hands of cruel and unjust
male dominated society of India. Simrit, the heroine of the novel gets
suffocating environment with her husband Som. Therefore, she seeks divorce
from Som to be free but after getting divorce she realises that it's too
appalling and cruel situation to move as a divorcee in society.
Her husband Som also cruel face of male domination in our society. He
tries to be modern in each and every manner and blindly imitates the
western style of life. He speaks their language, learns their mannerisms
and adopts their fashions. Simrit recalls : "He had German phrases on the
tip of his tongue and Vetter's mannerisms. He did most of his personal
shopping in Eurpoe. In a royal blue jacket, a French silk tie and hand
stitched Roman leather shoes he even looked foreigner."36
Som is a materialistic person. He gives more importance to money and power
than human feelings. For men like Som, money is the most important thing
in life and this love for money becomes the root cause of his separation
from his wife. Simrit feels : "Money had been part of the texture of her
relationship with Som, an emotional, forceful ingredient of it, intimately
tied to his self-esteem. Money was, after all a form of pride, even of
violence."38
Therefore, Som wants Simrit to act as a traditional wife and to his ideal
of subdued womanhood. It is tradition in Som that urges him to believe
that woman has to live under the control of man. Simrit finds it a
suffocating experience. She has no voice in the ordinary decisions of
everyday life, not even in the choice of curtains or chair covers :
Simrit's life with Som lacks continuity and warmth. She feels isolated. It
is act with a beginning and an end with nothing in-between or even
afterwards. Sex is a part of life not a separate relationship which can be
isolated from the rest of life. Sex is no more just sex than food is just
food.
Som's recapitulation of his cruelty to his wife proves that cruelty to a
woman is an eternal manifestation in man's life and woman is still in the
modern world a symbol of Victorian womanhood – an embodiment of service,
slavery and sacrifice.
Though the law has changed, attitudes hadn't and she feels uprooted in a
husband-centered world. It is difficult to begin a new for the past lives
on in the present, in the memories of the shared years and the lives of
the children. But when divorce comes it is not definitely easy for her..
Smirit finds her life disrupted and herself in the midst of a peculiar
financial problem. The heavy payments are an attempt to enslave her in
every way. The divorce is a new beginning of confrontation with the age
old traditional faith. She feels her position to that of an overloaded
donkey whose burden attracts no notice and draws forth no pity. Her
divorce does not imply that marriage has failed as a social institution of
that it has outlived its utility. Marriage is neither a system of slavery
nor an escape route. But is exposes the extremity of cruel faces in our
society that work against women.
We see this inhuman practice against Madhu in the novel A Situation in New
Delhi. The society that Nayantara creates in A Situation in New Delhi
is one which fails to protect women even on the University campus in
the capital city of the country as here Madhu a student of Delhi
University is raped in the Registrar's office. The boys who rape Madhu
obviously regard Madhu only as an object of lust to be used at their
disposal and have no regard for her feelings, will and self-respect. Madhu
becomes the symbol in the novel of women in India who have suffered under
the oppression of the patriarchy Indeed, the explanations for the attack
on Usman that Rishad offers his mothers', significant for the way, it
demonstrates the collusion of the patriarchy.
It is highly ironical situation that a society which produces such men and
cannot punish them does not deserve to have women in it.
In this matter the role of Madhu's parents is also very inhuman.. They
"don't want more publicity for what is already an intolerable disgrace."42
and see a hastily arranged marriage as the only solution to their
problems. Despite her appeal, Devi can do nothing to prevent.
Sahgal's sensitive awareness of social evils is seen in her journalistic
writings. The writer is not merely reacting to social situations, but is
sharply conscious of the constant deviation from social customs to suit
private ends.
The writer's endeavour in her fiction has been a conscious attempt to deal
with the 'brutalities perpetuated' by the privileged class. In the early
novels, the prototype male chauvinist husband's arrogant indifference
towards his wife has been given prime importance, be it Inder in Storm in
Chandigarh or Somnath in The Day in Shadow. Other areas of social
indifferences towards the cause of women appear in Situation in New Delhi,
where Madhu's (a rape victim's) plight is helplessly watched and commented
upon by Devi, the central woman character in the novel.
Thus, we find that which society Sahgal has created in her novels is based
on the fact that society and the law are both made and controlled by man.
Therefore, should any woman want help and assistance, these will not be
forthcoming from society. She must open her eyes to this reality.
References :
1. Simone de Deauvoir, The Second Sex, trans. H.M. Parshley New York;
Vintage, 1952, p.301.
2. Arundhati Banerjee, 'Introduction', Five Plays, Vijay Tendulkar,
Bomybay; OUP, 1992, p.xvii.
3. Sarah Grimke, Letters on the Equality of the Sexes 1 Off.
4. Simone de Beauvoir, Selden, 1988, p.534.
5. Ibid.
6. Ibid, p.136.
7. Ibid, p.162.
8. Ibid, p.76.
9. Nayantara Sahgal, The Day in Shadow Delhi : Vikas, 1971, p.9.
10. Ibid, p.60.
11. Ibid, p.23.c
Contributing Writer: Dr. Ram Sharma, Lecturer
in English,
Janta Vedic College MEERUT, U.P.
dr.ram_sharma@yahoo.co.in
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